2 of my favorite quotes are ‘Be the cause, not because’ and ‘Everything will be good in the end. If it’s not good, it’s not the end’.
Instead of having excuses or blaming others for what happened or not, it’s more productive to make things happen. If you don’t like the situation, there are only 2 choices: change it or live with it. ‘Be the cause, not because’.
The young Indian guy who runs the hotel in the movie, The Best Exotic Hotel, always says ‘Everything will be good in the end. If it’s not good, it’s not the end’ with a big smile when things went wrong. I like his attitude and it’s true. It’s a matter of ‘time’ to get better and make it if you keep going.