Aunt’s friends admire her ‘bravery’ to take risks膽子大. Aunt said she is not brave, neither gambling; actually she is conservative. What she does is to assess the risk and determine if she can manage the worst case scenario, if so, go for it. Once she made the decision, she’d stick to it to make it happen. If it doesn’t work, she doesn’t get bug down but learn and adjust. Therefore, she is able to ‘make decision’. She said 我有擔當 (I’m accountable). I think she is absolutely right. When we are able to take 100% responsibility of our life, not wait or blame other and circumstance, we can do anything!